We've been married 13 years. We have four kids and a puppy. And we almost didn't make it.

Not because we didn't love each other. Because I was bleeding contaminated blood—rage, shame, isolation, performance syndrome—and Jasmine didn't know whether to pray, leave, or fix me.

She learned a fourth option: walk through the surgery with me.

That's what saved us. Not behavior modification. Not marriage counseling. Blood transfusion theology. Jasmine supported the surgery instead of stopping the bleeding too early.

When a Man in Progress married a Woman "Ova Being Perfect"—everything changed.

5230 is our life work. It's what we wished existed when my father was murdered, when my daughter drowned, when I had two heart attacks at 39, when my first marriage failed, when Jasmine and I almost became another divorce statistic.

I wrote Overcomers Only (Man In Progress) after 30+ years in ministry leadership. Jasmine built the couples engagement model that drives our 70% completion rate. Together, we're giving families what saved ours.

June 20, 2026—Suits & Shades. Where couples commit to transformation as partners, not opponents.

Because the struggle produced the strategy. And the strategy works.